Life is like a cup of coffee

life is like a cup of coffee~
after watching this video i realised,
that life is all about care, love and our feelings. 
money do bring us happiness but it is not for eternity,
but our feelings can bring us happiness and its eternal. 
money is the cup, but our feelings are the coffee~~
we should enjoy the coffee and not the cup. So we should really focus on what makes us happy and not our surrounding.
if we care for other things while we're concentrating to achieve something we really want, we might not get it coz we are distracted by things around it.
at the end of the day, its not what we accomplish for others. but what we had done for our self~~

A to Z friendship

A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.

A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it.


A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems


A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

Best Friends....

(A)ccepts you as you are

(B)elieves in "you"

(C)alls you just to say "HI"

(D)oesn't give up on you

(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)

(F)orgives your mistakes

(G)ives unconditionally

(H)elps you

(I)nvites you over

(J)ust "be" with you

(K)eeps you close at heart

(L)oves you for who you are

(M)akes a difference in your life

(N)ever Judges

(O)ffer support

(P)icks you up

(Q)uiets your fears

(R)aises your spirits

(S)ays nice things about you

(T)ells you the truth when you need it

(U)nderstands you

(V)alues you

(W)alks beside you

(X)-plains thing you don't understand

(Y)ells when you won't listen and

(Z)aps you back to reality

Sand and Stone

An illustrative friendship story about a walk through the desert, which tests the strength of their friendship.

During some point of the journey, they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, he wrote in the sand:

Today my best friend slapped me in the face.

They kept on walking, until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but his friend saved him. After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone:

Today my best friend saved my life.

The friend, who had slapped and saved his best friend, asked him, "After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand, and now, you write on a stone, why?"
The other friend replied: "When someone hurts us, we should write it down in sand, where the winds of forgiveness can erase it away, but when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it.

Learn to write your hurts in the sand and to carve your blessings in stone.